Y2Joudrey wrote:What would a forum be without exaggeration and over-reaction?
The last time I did something I thought was a waste of time and money for a complete stranger? I do that almost every day at work for the people who make my organization possible - clients, walk-ins, etc. Since fans are pretty parallel on that one, I'd say that's a big part of where my confusion stems from. No fans, no ticket buyers, no acting career. Easy math.
He has said in several interviews that he does not understand why people want autographs. So he is lecturing on something he doesn't understand. Autograph collectors aren't registered charities. Also, we understand when people don't want to sign and either RTS the thing or simply never get anything back. If he understood solicitation, as you're arguing, he could easily do either of those things.
He has every right, like you keep saying, to respond how he likes. But by cancelling out the good will from signing the autograph, he's missing the point almost entirely.
I don't plan to call him a hypocrite at all in my letter... I'm always very respectful in my requests. I do plan to bring up the autograph thing, but in a more sympathetic way than anything to see how he'll respond. And I AM a fan of his work in Naked Gun 2-1/2... those movies are some of my all-time favourites.
I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize anyone else's chances of getting an autograph... I don't post e-mail addresses or successes I get from contacting peoples' management or anything like that. Everyone deserves a fair shake... I just wish Mr. Griffiths would either show he understands the value of providing autographs or simply not sign for those who don't include postage.
I highly doubt he would send an angry letter back to someone he didn't know at a cancer society or something of the like (even with an SASE)... and they're not just asking for his time, they want his money (and probably a signature if the donation is through the mail) - ha ha ha!

Where's the exaggeration?
So hang on.. You're asked to do things unrelated to your job for people who don't pay you at your own expense that you consider to be a waste of your time and money and you do them anyway? That makes no sense.
His job is to act. He gets paid to act. Not to mention, there's a flaw in your math. Who bought tickets to see the Harry Potter movies purely because they were fans of Richard Griffiths? And how much of that money did Richard Griffiths see? No fans=/=no ticket buyers. Not to mention, no ticket buyers=/=no acting career. Unless a sizable amount of people say they didn't see a project because Richard Griffiths is in it, a bunch of flops won't end his career. Studios would need to see him as a liability for him to no longer be able to find work.
Saying he doesn't understand it isn't a lecture. Telling collectors to send SASE's isn't a lecture about something he doesn't understand, as it doesn't pertain to autographs exclusively. And he could easily do any of those things you mentioned. But fans are asking him to sign. So he does.
What he's asking for in return is common courtesy. Once you have to request it a few hundred times, it gets annoying. That's where his anger is likely coming from. I know I'd be pissed. But he goes one step farther than I would. He actually fulfills the requests. That speaks for his true character, I think, more than anything.
I'm commenting based off the letter you posted. Pointing out his seemingly contradictory views as such is calling him a hypocrite, regardless of whether or not you actually use the word.
What shows that he understands the value of signing autographs more than him DOING IT AT HIS OWN EXPENSE EVEN THOUGH HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE? And, from my standpoint, pointing out that he doesn't understand them and asking why he still signs them could very well make him say "You know what? This guy is right. This costs me a ton of money and I don't agree with doing it anyway" and then never signing another one. Do you really not see that?
Lastly, there's a difference between personal solicitations and impersonal. If someone at a cancer society or something sent him a personal letter with a request and didn't include a SASE (this goes for charity autograph collectors as well), I could very easily see him berating the person. If it's impersonal, he'd probably just toss it like anyone else would.