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am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 2:22 pm
by eternaldance
i'm really really confused.

i've sent around 12 requests on 26th of June and I got only one reply. I'm affraid I'm doing something wrong. I address the envelope properly, I put inside an IRC, a letter, SAE, sometimes a picture to sign.

It happened to me a couple of months ago, I've sent around 5 requests and I only got 2 replies.

Am I doing something wrong or the waiting time can be so long ??

I'll be thankful for some advice :)

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 2:33 pm
by Kenny1965
I'd say just give it more time. I have sent out 96 request since May with only 29 returns. I know it seems like forever, but sometimes it takes a while for them to get to your request and return it.

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:15 pm
by ursha
It's the same with me but I finished worrying. If I don't get it at first time I write to a celebrity again :) Just be patient and if you rly want to get it try again and again.

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:43 pm
by guilder1st
It depends on who you are writing to. If you are writing to A listers like Leo Dicaprio, Kate Winslet, Johnny Depp. Or anyone that's big like those folks, your chances of getting anything back are low. If you are writing to people that are not currently 'hot' celebrities, it can still take a long time to get returns. Just be patient, things will come back in the mail. Sometimes it just takes months or even years. {thumb2}

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 3:44 am
by Melindabear2002
Yeah I have stuff that has taken less than two weeks, but others that have taken over a year. So don't panic, just be patient, plus you have to consider where you sent it to and how long it would take to get there. And if the celeb is doing a shoot or tour or anything else that would cause them to not be there at the moment.

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 1:08 am
by annie985
No, you're not doing anything wrong. Sometimes it takes a long time and sometimes you may not get anything back. There was one time when I wrote Jonathan Jackson (during his time on General Hospital) and didn't get a reply for a year and a half and it was a preprint. So it's a waiting game. I know it's hard to wait. I've sent out 34 requests in the last couple of months and only got 1 response so far.

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 2:33 am
by grahams222
Sweetheart, IT AIN'T YOU. I am a volunteer fundraiser & mailed out over 500 letters. I got approx. 25 RTS, 30 NO LETTERS, 1 personal phone call from an agency saying that their office moved & said their mail was delayed & asked if they could still donate. I personal email saying that they are sending something with hopes that it will get here in time. And about 75 responses with pictures or items.

What happened to the other 400?

I am still getting items that I mailed letters out in April. Like Charlie Pride was mailed April 4th & got him in today. Continue mailing out request letters on a 2 week basis, I know it is costly but do not mail the same request letter for the same person unless 6 months has expired. Some send immediatly & others well.....

I am curretnly now working on my own personal collection & mail out letters every 2 weeks to someone.

Re: am i doing something wrong ?

Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:46 am
by eternaldance
thank you guys for your advices and warm words, you are really great :)

so i guess i have to wait wait wait and wait, but in the meantime i'll send some requests anyway ^^

thank youuuu, really youre da best ! {thumb2}