As much as you make complete sense, the only one who has any power here is the Admin and the Admin does not listen too well to comments of improvement unfortunately.

1) It would be nice if users were required to have 1-2 posts approved by a moderator before being allowed to post direct to the site. The spam on the main page is getting worse.

2) If somebody dies, it would be nice if the database could reflect that the celeb has passed on. i.e. why does Leslie Nielson http://www.fanmail.biz/2485.html have an address on here? He's been dead for five years. While one would hope the sender would know the status of the celeb, it's entirely possible that people are sending stuff off without being aware.